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March 17, 2017 / catherinebwrites


Read any magazine, Sunday supplement, newspaper features, relationship websites and it seems like the whole world wants to know what is it that makes a relationship work?

Men agonize over it.

Women agonize over it.

Is it me is it?   Is it him?   Is it her?

Here’s the answer.

G R O W  U P !

That’s right.   It really is that simple.   Grow up.

A grown up takes responsibility for their actions…  .if only everyone did that we’d have World Peace

Knows how to listen

Knows when to give support

Does the chores that need to be done.

Asks for what they need

Asks for help.

Can say “no”

Can take “no” for an answer.

Doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

And, if there’s only one grown up in the relationship, they can say.  “Enough is enough” and take the necessary action!


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  1. Eun Kyung Choi / Mar 18 2017 9:26 am

    Hello Catherine. I’m Eun Kyung from South Korea. We met Frigiliana last December. I enjoyed the travelling in Spain. I just wanted to say hello to you. ^^


    • catherinebwrites / Mar 18 2017 12:04 pm

      Hi Eun, Yes, I remember it well. It was a great pleasure. I hope you enjoyed the rest of your trip.For us it made Winter pass quickly and now the Spring flowers are springing up all over the place. spring always makes me feel that there is hope in the world no matter what else is happening.




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